I don’t think I’ve ever been grateful enough yet so I should probably start saying my thanks before I lose the chance to do so. If anything this horrendous trip to this place has taught me one thing. It taught me how to start counting my blessings and how to see who are your real friends in life. I don’t think I’ve expressed it enough of how the loneliness can eat you but look at it this way, if you haven’t found the time or the motivation to reassess your life I’ve found the best solution. Go to a place where you have no choice but to be completely alone in your thoughts and you’ll see that sooner or later what you never thought you’d think about will slowly emerge. In my case it took seven months for me to see what actually matters.
But yes, I love you Julie but I’ve come to realize one thing, I will not crack under the pressure because I have something that will hold me together my second girlfriend. She goes by the name Mela Kiegs. She’s a foreigner alright with a lovely mix of ethnicity, culture, and just plain continental location. My own personal support system that composes of the four most amazing girls that I have met in my life. Why fret over one girlfriend when I actually have four.
Every aspect of a relationship is covered by Mela Kiegs that I didn’t get to realize until today so forgive me for being so dense and insensitive, the sands of Bahrain had accidentally decided to ruin the way my brain works.
Don’t believe me? Well I’ll break it down for y’all.
Meri - she’s the demanding part of my girlfriend. She’s adorable that way when she asks for my time like never before. She also brings out the protectiveness and possessiveness of a boyfriend that questions the “innocent” prom dates motives cause he can’t be there to accompany the said girl to the prom. Not to mention she’s the one that makes you smile when she points out how much of an ass and a jerk you actually are and how she gets annoyed when you tease her playfully. She also brings out your understanding and caring side when you feel like you want to do something that will make her feel physically fine cause she’s always tired. You remind her to be responsible and not drink to much and at least try to have clean fun. She’s your baby like any girlfriend would be.
Lara - she’s the playful girlfriend who knows how to tease you well enough to make you laugh at such a horrible day. She’s also the part where you go to meet the parents and find that her mom is the wisest person in the world. She keeps you laughing and makes sure that you go sleep on time and along with the Meri part she makes sure you don’t be irresponsible and get to work on time. She’s also the part that hates your boss just because you do. You can talk to her about anything and everything, even the dirty little secrets of your life and because of that you feel less burdened with life cause you find that you can easily share things with her that you find a hard time telling other people. She will be the girl that will occasionally, and by occasionally I mean when you need it, stay up with you to listen to you belt out to Disney songs and will happily take time out of her schedule and health issues to have a nice drink with you. She understands you in a way that makes you feel that you aren’t alone in the world after all and she’s the girlfriend that makes you feel that compared to her ex’s you are the best thing that happened to her and that you deserve her. Lastly she’s the girl that admits to be the one you will spend eternity with, only the eternity you both can for see isn’t exactly heaven.
Kim - She’s the girlfriend that has the most random stories and doesn’t hesitate to tell you about her day just the way a girlfriend should. Her day is filled with randomness to a level that you find very much amusing and keeps you on your toes. You cannot predict her day that you anticipate her talking to her each day just to see how it went. Everyday you wait on her stories and find that you actually do learn something new each day that you can’t wait for her to go to bed have another day with you even if its just purely stories. She’s also the girl that worries about the next most important thing in your life, your son. She’s the one that will hold your hand through a clinical procedure assuring you that your son is in the best possible care ever. She also does this when its your turn to be at the hospital because you’re freaking out over something that turned out to be just a normal thing medically. She’s also the humble girl that knows when to say sorry, in fact she says it too much that you just want to shake your head and say, it’s not your damn fault. She’s the girl that you wish was more selfish because next to her you look like a complete and utter jackass and dick. She shares your love for wildlife and will not take away man points from you if you cry over a movie that has a meaningful end for our furry little friends. Lastly, she’s the girl that knows what it feels like to lose someone you care about deeply enough to name your son after that person. Like you she’s dealt with death and on days you can just sit quietly with her and just lay on each others shoulder and reminisce about the awesome life that person had lived.
Megs - now she’s the part that makes you feel that she’s always there ready to talk whenever you feel like talking. She whines about her job just like working girlfriend should because she’d rather spend time sharing something with you. She shares your taste for music and will be the one to tell you what the hell is wrong with you when others wont. She makes you feel like you can be superman and admits when she doesn’t understand what you’re going through but she’s still there for you all the same. She’s also the one that makes sure you eat your meals on time and even when you don’t feel like it, she can make you eat. She shares your passion for writing and she easily race with you and gives you motivation just when you need it. She reminds you of why you’re putting up with crap and says the things you need to hear to get you back into your drive. She worries for you like no other and will go out of her way to make sure you know that. She prays for your safety and for you well being and understands that there is a divine light that will keep both of you safe from harm and will help you get through life. She’s also the girl that will plot with you and allows you to play the biased boyfriend role that will hate anyone solely because she hates them too. Of course when all the rage and irritation dies over you begin to talk her through seeing another side of the story. Lastly she gets you to do your work by hook or by crook. She’ll constantly push you to be the better man in all aspects of life.
After breaking it down, there’s one thing all of them never forget to do, they wish you a good morning and a good night. The think of you and keep you close in their hearts, they debate with you and even on occasion they argue with you. They give you all the virtual hugs and kisses that you need to get through your day. As well as the constant squishing and somehow their warmth travels through the six modem lines or the wireless frequency to get to you. From telling you to stop smoking because its bad for you to understanding that sometimes you really need that drink they’ve done it. They will listen to you rant, cry, laugh, groan, grumble, spazz, wonder, dream, and yes they will listen to you love and get hurt. Now who doesn’t want a girlfriend like that? Who needs one girlfriend when you have four girls ready and willing to appreciate the smallest things you do and all the efforts you put into making things work for all of you. They aren’t scared to tell you what’s wrong with you neither would they tolerate it if you do something that will eventually fuck up your life. As much right as they have on you, they are also reasonable enough to give you the same privilege to have an opinion with their life. They respect your opinion and on occasion seek your twisted form of wisdom which will make you feel all fuzzy and needed inside.
All in all, they love you, they care for you, they actually do miss you when you’re gone, and they appreciate you. So with all of that, I shouldn’t be wallowing at all about life and complaining. I have the best girlfriend and the whole wide word id that should be enough for me.
Thanks Mela Kiegs. ILY!
